Gender-based violence (GBV) affects millions of people worldwide, particularly women and children. It includes physical, emotional, and sexual abuse that happens because of someone’s gender. In our communities, GBV creates lasting trauma not just for survivors, but for families and society as a whole.
Recently, at the re-launch of the Kabokweni Themba Thuthuzela Care Centre (TCC), Advocate Shamila Batohi shared a powerful message: fighting GBV requires everyone’s involvement. Her words remind us that we can’t stay silent anymore.
Thuthuzela Care Centres: A Safe Haven for Survivors
TCCs are special places where GBV survivors can find all the help they need under one roof. Think of them as friendly, caring spaces where trained professionals offer:
- Medical care and check-ups
- Emotional support and counseling
- Help with legal matters
- Safe spaces to tell their stories
The Kabokweni TCC, which first opened its doors in 2008, has become an essential part of Themba Hospital. It shows how dedicated spaces for survivors can make a real difference in their healing journey.
Community: Our First Line of Defense
“Prevention starts with community awareness and action” – Advocate Batohi
When neighbors look out for each other, we create safer spaces. Local police working with community members can spot warning signs early and step in before violence happens. It’s like having a neighborhood watch, but specifically focused on preventing GBV.
Men as Partners in Change
Men play a crucial role in stopping GBV. Advocate Batohi’s message to men is clear: speak up when you see or hear about abuse. Whether it’s at work, in social groups, or family gatherings, men can help by:
- Calling out harmful behavior
- Supporting survivors
- Teaching younger men about respect
- Being good role models
Justice that Heals
TCCs are helping more survivors get justice. They’ve found smart ways to make the legal process less scary, like letting people give evidence from separate rooms. This means survivors don’t have to face their abusers in court, which can be very frightening.
Prevention: Better Than Cure
Working with the Department of Justice, TCCs are focusing on stopping GBV before it starts by:
- Teaching communities about healthy relationships
- Helping people spot warning signs
- Creating support networks
- Making it easier to report abuse
Facing Challenges Together
We still face many obstacles in fighting GBV:
- Some people are afraid to speak up
- Not everyone knows where to get help
- Old beliefs that excuse abuse
- Limited resources in some areas
But TCCs show us what’s possible when we work together. They’re proving that with the right support, survivors can heal and rebuild their lives.
Taking Action Together
Each of us can help fight GBV:
- Learn about support services in your area
- Share information about TCCs with others
- Believe and support survivors
- Report abuse when you see it
- Join community prevention efforts
“Every voice raised against gender-based violence makes our communities safer for everyone.”
Remember, fighting GBV isn’t just about helping survivors – it’s about creating a society where everyone feels safe and respected. Let’s work together to make that happen.
